How much easier it is to make married life adjustments, when you deal with the major issues before you marry. It’s better to learn how to communicate and know what each other is expecting, while you can still change your mind. I have found that after marriage, there is something that people say comes over them, that their situation is hopeless. I also hear people say, “If I had only known before we were married.” Before you are married you can see if you can come to agreement. After marriage, one who is a Believer can feel they have lost their choices. Some things we are just not willing to give up or compromise on. We need to know what is important to us before marriage.